Monday, January 17, 2011

DV reversed where no purpose to harass E.D. v P.D., DOCKET NO. A-0692-09T3

DV reversed where no purpose to harass

E.D.,v P.D., DOCKET NO. A-0692-09T3

RECORD IMPOUNDED

NOT FOR PUBLICATION WITHOUT THE

APPROVAL OF THE APPELLATE DIVISION

SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY

APPELLATE DIVISION

_______________________________________________

December 13, 2010

Submitted December 1, 2010 - Decided

Before Judges Fisher and Simonelli.

On appeal from the Superior Court of New Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part, Somerset County, Docket No. FV-18-0243-10.

Copeland, Shimalla, Wechsler & Lepp, attorneys for appellant (Amy Wechsler, of counsel; Tam Abitante, on the brief).

Respondent has not filed a brief.

PER CURIAM

Defendant appeals from a final restraining order (FRO) entered against him and in favor of his ex-wife, pursuant to the Prevention of Domestic Violence Act (the Act), N.J.S.A. 2C:25-17 to -35. Because the predicate acts were not alarming or seriously annoying but akin to what we have described as "ordinary domestic contretemps," Corrente v. Corrente, 281 N.J. Super. 243, 250 (App. Div. 1995), because the judge did not find defendant acted with the purpose to harass, and because the judge did not find restraints were necessary to protect plaintiff from immediate danger or to prevent further abuse, we reverse.

The trial consisted only of the testimony of the parties, who represented themselves. Although he did not specifically enumerate the acts of domestic violence found to have occurred, we discern from the judge's credibility findings that he found all the acts alleged by plaintiff to have occurred as plaintiff described them; accordingly, we will assume the judge found the following facts, which we take from plaintiff's testimony:

-- on July 24, 2009, defendant called plaintiff "repeated[ly]";

-- on July 25 and 26, 2009, defendant made "several" telephone calls to plaintiff while she was at work; she told him to send an e-mail, but he "continued to call, refused to send an e-mail, [and] was yelling about" whether she had made payments necessary for their children to play soccer and engage in cheerleading; during these telephone calls, defendant was "very aggressive and hostile";

-- on August 5, 2009, plaintiff was standing outside a yoga studio when defendant "stopped his car, rolled down his window and yelled . . . [']get your ass home and take care of your kids[']";

-- on August 11, 2009, defendant telephoned plaintiff at work again to complain about the soccer and cheerleading fees; according to plaintiff, "the phone call lasted a couple of minutes and I was trying to be business-like, as I was standing in my office and I said to him, [']can you please slow down?['] He said [']no, I won't slow down. If I slow down, I might get nice.['] And the phone call ended [with defendant] saying, 'get it done, bitch,' and he hung up";

-- on August 12, 2009, plaintiff answered their daughter's cellphone; defendant was on the line and "insult[ed] and harass[ed]" plaintiff about her "financial history, [her inability] to pay bills";

-- later on August 12, 2009, while returning home from yoga class, plaintiff's vehicle passed defendant's; he "slowed down, . . . stared at me, put up his middle finger and glared, just a crazed look on his face."

Based on these implicit findings, the judge entered an FRO.

Defendant appealed, raising the following arguments for our consideration:

I. THERE EXISTS INSUFFICIENT CREDIBLE EVI-DENCE IN THE RECORD TO SUSTAIN THE FINDING THAT APPELLANT COMMITTED AN ACT OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AGAINST RESPONDENT.

A. THE TRIAL COURT FAILED TO MAKE A SPECIFIC FINDING AS TO WHAT WAS DONE TO CONSTITUTE A PREDICATE ACT OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.

B. EVEN IF THE TRIAL COURT HAD MADE A FINDING THAT THE APPELLANT COMMITTED HARASSMENT, IT FAILED TO MAKE A SPECIFIC FINDING OF INTENT TO HARASS.

C. THE TRIAL COURT ERRONEOUSLY FOUND THAT THERE WAS A HISTORY OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.

II. THE TRIAL COURT DID NOT MAKE THE RE-QUIRED DETERMINATION THAT A FINAL RESTRAIN-ING ORDER WAS NECESSARY TO PROTECT RESPON-DENT FROM FUTURE ACTS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.

III. THE TRIAL COURT ERRED BY FAILING TO FULLY CONSIDER WHETHER RESPONDENT WAS USING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE COMPLAINT TO GAIN AN ADVANTAGE IN THE PENDING FM AND DYFS MATTERS.

IV. THE CONDUCT OF THE PROCEEDINGS DEPRIVED THE APPELLANT OF HIS RIGHT TO A FULL AND FAIR HEARING.

V. THE CUMULATIVE EFFECT OF THE ERRORS MANDATE A REVERSAL OF THE ENTRY OF THE FINAL RESTRAINING ORDER.

Because we conclude (a) the judge did not find defendant acted with the purpose to harass, (b) the predicate acts were not of sufficient significance, and (c) the judge failed to find an FRO was necessary to prevent an immediate danger or further abuse, the FRO must be reversed without our needing to reach defendant's other arguments.

A

To obtain an FRO pursuant to the Act, a plaintiff must first prove by a preponderance of the evidence that the defendant committed one of the predicate acts referred to in N.J.S.A. 2C:25-19(a), which incorporates harassment, N.J.S.A. 2C:33-4, as conduct constituting domestic violence. See Silver v. Silver, 387 N.J. Super. 112, 125 (App. Div. 2006). Here, we discern from the judge's oral decision that he viewed plaintiff's allegations as fitting either subsection (a)1 or (c)2 of N.J.S.A. 2C:33-4.3Harassment as defined in either subsection requires proof that defendant acted "with purpose to harass."

Certainly, an harassment claim does not require a statement from the defendant that he or she acted with an intent to harass the plaintiff. "A finding of a purpose to harass may be inferred from the evidence presented," which may be informed by "[c]ommon sense and experience." State v. Hoffman, 149 N.J. 564, 577 (1997). Here, the judge made no finding that defendant acted with this requisite purpose, nor may defendant's words and conduct be viewed as implicitly embodying a purpose to harass. Accordingly, in the absence of this "integral" finding, Corrente, supra, 281 N.J. Super. at 249, the judge's determination that defendant committed a predicate act cannot stand and the FRO must be reversed.

B

Even when viewed expansively, we cannot conclude from the judge's findings that defendant engaged in any communications or conduct that rose to the level of what the Legislature intended as "domestic violence." For example, in Corrente, the defendant threatened "drastic measure[s]," and later disconnected the plaintiff's telephone service; we held that communication and conduct could not be "characterized as alarming or seriously annoying." Id. at 249. In another case, we drew the same conclusion where the defendant said to the plaintiff, "I'll bury you," Peranio v. Peranio, 280 N.J. Super. 47, 55-56 (App. Div. 1995). And, where the defendant surreptitiously removed the plaintiff's belongings from their apartment and engaged in one occasion of shouting and door slamming, we likewise found no course of alarming conduct sufficient to constitute domestic violence. Grant v. Wright, 222 N.J. Super. 191, 196 (App. Div.), certif. denied, 111 N.J. 562 (1988). See also Kamen v. Egan, 322 N.J. Super. 222, 228 (App. Div. 1999) (holding that a single act of trespass, unaccompanied by violence or a threat of violence, was insufficient to justify issuance of an FRO).

Assessing the judge's opinion in the light most favorable to plaintiff, the evidence suggested only that defendant made multiple telephone calls to plaintiff about the payment of fees for the children's extracurricular activities, berated plaintiff and called her a "bitch," and made angry gestures and faces from a distance. Even had the judge found defendant spoke and acted with the purpose to harass -- which he did not -- these circumstances still failed to meet the standard necessary for entry of an FRO.

As then Judge (now Justice) Long stated for this court in Corrente, this type of conduct -- particularly during the course of matrimonial litigation, as here -- "was plainly never contemplated by the Legislature when it addressed the serious social problem of domestic violence." 281 N.J. Super. at 250. Instead, "the invocation of the domestic violence law" in this case, like Corrente, "trivialize[s] the plight of true victims of domestic violence and misuse[s] the legislative vehicle which was developed to protect them." Ibid.; see also Peranio, supra, 280 N.J. Super. at 56-57. In short, "[t]he domestic violence law was intended to address matters of consequence, not ordinary domestic contretemps such as this." Corrente, supra, 281 N.J. Super. at 250. We find those statements equally applicable here.4

C

The FRO must also be reversed because the judge did not find restraints were necessary "to protect the victim from an immediate danger or to prevent further abuse." Silver, supra, 387 N.J. Super. at 127; see also Kamen, supra, 322 N.J. Super. at 228. As explained by Judge Fall in Silver, supra, 387 N.J. Super. at 126-27, the finding of a predicate act satisfies only the first step in a two-step process. Because "the Legislature did not intend that the commission of one of the enumerated predicate acts of domestic violence automatically mandates the entry of a domestic violence retraining order," plaintiff was obligated to prove and the judge was required to find that restraints were necessary to "protect the victim from an immediate danger or to prevent further abuse." Ibid. Although there are certain acts of domestic violence that may reveal such a need without a judge's express finding, when the claimed predicate act consists of harassment or other types of nonviolent conduct, the judge is required to provide a principled analysis of why a restraining order is necessary to protect the victim from danger or further abuse.

Absent an expressed holding, or other findings from which we might discern such an implicit determination, we must conclude that plaintiff failed to prove the need for an FRO even if the proofs permitted a finding that defendant committed the predicate act of harassment.

Reversed.

1N.J.S.A. 2C:33-4(a) declares that harassment consists of the making or causing to be made, "with purpose to harass another," "a communication or communications anonymously or at extremely inconvenient hours, or in offensively coarse language, or any other manner likely to cause annoyance or alarm."

2N.J.S.A. 2C:33-4(c) declares that harassment consists of the engaging, "with purpose to harass another," "in any other course of alarming conduct or of repeatedly committed acts with purpose to alarm or seriously annoy such other person."

3The judge's citation to the predicate acts in question here combined both subsections (a) and (c); that is, the judge stated:

In looking under the complaint that's been filed, it's [N.J.S.A.] 2C:33-4, harassment, a person commits a petty disorderly offense if with the purpose of harassment, he makes or causes to be made communications in an offensive language or in any matter likely to cause annoyance or alarm.

The judge did not thereafter determine which part or parts of the statute were violated here.

4The record is very murky as to whether there was a prior history of domestic violence. Plaintiff asserted "[t]here's a long prior history . . . going back to 1997 of threats and harassment, interfering with my work" but she only provided specifics related to her unsuccessful attempt to obtain an FRO five years earlier. We are mindful that defendant acknowledged "there's been a long history of reported domestic violence [that started] back in 1997," but his unspecific comments seemed to suggest that plaintiff's earlier claims, which were found without merit, were not dissimilar from those asserted here. Moreover, defendant testified and was not contradicted that after the earlier domestic violence action was dismissed, the parties continued to reside together, even after entry of a judgment of divorce. In any event, the judge made only one reference to this testimony -- "I've heard a litany of complaints that go back to 1997" -- and did not find that there was a prior history of domestic violence.

Monday, December 27, 2010

Arguments are not domestic violence E.D. v. P.D., DOCKET NO. A-0692-09T3

Arguments are not domestic violence

E.D.

v.

P.D., DOCKET NO. A-0692-09T3

RECORD IMPOUNDED

NOT FOR PUBLICATION WITHOUT THE

APPROVAL OF THE APPELLATE DIVISION

SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY

APPELLATE DIVISION


_______________________________________________

Submitted December 1, 2010 - Decided

Before Judges Fisher and Simonelli.

On appeal from the Superior Court of New

Jersey, Chancery Division, Family Part,

Somerset County, Docket No. FV-18-0243-10.

Copeland, Shimalla, Wechsler & Lepp,

attorneys for appellant (Amy Wechsler, of

counsel; Tam Abitante, on the brief).

Respondent has not filed a brief.

PER CURIAM

Defendant appeals from a final restraining order (FRO)

entered against him and in favor of his ex-wife, pursuant to the

Prevention of Domestic Violence Act (the Act), N.J.S.A. 2C:25-17

to -35. Because the predicate acts were not alarming or

seriously annoying but akin to what we have described as

"ordinary domestic contretemps," Corrente v. Corrente, 281 N.J.

December 13, 2010

2 A-0692-09T3

Super. 243, 250 (App. Div. 1995), because the judge did not find

defendant acted with the purpose to harass, and because the

judge did not find restraints were necessary to protect

plaintiff from immediate danger or to prevent further abuse, we

reverse.

The trial consisted only of the testimony of the parties,

who represented themselves. Although he did not specifically

enumerate the acts of domestic violence found to have occurred,

we discern from the judge's credibility findings that he found

all the acts alleged by plaintiff to have occurred as plaintiff

described them; accordingly, we will assume the judge found the

following facts, which we take from plaintiff's testimony:

-- on July 24, 2009, defendant called

plaintiff "repeated[ly]";

-- on July 25 and 26, 2009, defendant

made "several" telephone calls to plaintiff

while she was at work; she told him to send

an e-mail, but he "continued to call,

refused to send an e-mail, [and] was yelling

about" whether she had made payments

necessary for their children to play soccer

and engage in cheerleading; during these

telephone calls, defendant was "very

aggressive and hostile";

-- on August 5, 2009, plaintiff was

standing outside a yoga studio when

defendant "stopped his car, rolled down his

window and yelled . . . [']get your ass home

and take care of your kids[']";

-- on August 11, 2009, defendant

telephoned plaintiff at work again to

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complain about the soccer and cheerleading

fees; according to plaintiff, "the phone

call lasted a couple of minutes and I was

trying to be business-like, as I was

standing in my office and I said to him,

[']can you please slow down?['] He said

[']no, I won't slow down. If I slow down, I

might get nice.['] And the phone call ended

[with defendant] saying, 'get it done,

bitch,' and he hung up";

-- on August 12, 2009, plaintiff

answered their daughter's cellphone; defendant

was on the line and "insult[ed] and

harass[ed]" plaintiff about her "financial

history, [her inability] to pay bills";

-- later on August 12, 2009, while

returning home from yoga class, plaintiff's

vehicle passed defendant's; he "slowed down,

. . . stared at me, put up his middle finger

and glared, just a crazed look on his face."

Based on these implicit findings, the judge entered an FRO.

Defendant appealed, raising the following arguments for our

consideration:

I. THERE EXISTS INSUFFICIENT CREDIBLE EVIDENCE

IN THE RECORD TO SUSTAIN THE FINDING

THAT APPELLANT COMMITTED AN ACT OF DOMESTIC

VIOLENCE AGAINST RESPONDENT.

A. THE TRIAL COURT FAILED TO MAKE

A SPECIFIC FINDING AS TO WHAT WAS

DONE TO CONSTITUTE A PREDICATE ACT

OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.

B. EVEN IF THE TRIAL COURT HAD

MADE A FINDING THAT THE APPELLANT

COMMITTED HARASSMENT, IT FAILED TO

MAKE A SPECIFIC FINDING OF INTENT

TO HARASS.

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C. THE TRIAL COURT ERRONEOUSLY

FOUND THAT THERE WAS A HISTORY OF

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.

II. THE TRIAL COURT DID NOT MAKE THE REQUIRED

DETERMINATION THAT A FINAL RESTRAINING

ORDER WAS NECESSARY TO PROTECT RESPONDENT

FROM FUTURE ACTS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.

III. THE TRIAL COURT ERRED BY FAILING TO

FULLY CONSIDER WHETHER RESPONDENT WAS USING

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE COMPLAINT TO GAIN AN

ADVANTAGE IN THE PENDING FM AND DYFS

MATTERS.

IV. THE CONDUCT OF THE PROCEEDINGS DEPRIVED

THE APPELLANT OF HIS RIGHT TO A FULL AND

FAIR HEARING.

V. THE CUMULATIVE EFFECT OF THE ERRORS

MANDATE A REVERSAL OF THE ENTRY OF THE FINAL

RESTRAINING ORDER.

Because we conclude (a) the judge did not find defendant acted

with the purpose to harass, (b) the predicate acts were not of

sufficient significance, and (c) the judge failed to find an FRO

was necessary to prevent an immediate danger or further abuse,

the FRO must be reversed without our needing to reach

defendant's other arguments.

A

To obtain an FRO pursuant to the Act, a plaintiff must

first prove by a preponderance of the evidence that the

defendant committed one of the predicate acts referred to in

N.J.S.A. 2C:25-19(a), which incorporates harassment, N.J.S.A.

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2C:33-4, as conduct constituting domestic violence. See Silver

v. Silver, 387 N.J. Super. 112, 125 (App. Div. 2006). Here, we

discern from the judge's oral decision that he viewed

plaintiff's allegations as fitting either subsection (a)1 or (c)2

of N.J.S.A. 2C:33-4.3 Harassment as defined in either subsection

requires proof that defendant acted "with purpose to harass."

Certainly, an harassment claim does not require a statement

from the defendant that he or she acted with an intent to harass

the plaintiff. "A finding of a purpose to harass may be

inferred from the evidence presented," which may be informed by

1N.J.S.A. 2C:33-4(a) declares that harassment consists of the

making or causing to be made, "with purpose to harass another,"

"a communication or communications anonymously or at extremely

inconvenient hours, or in offensively coarse language, or any

other manner likely to cause annoyance or alarm."

2N.J.S.A. 2C:33-4(c) declares that harassment consists of the

engaging, "with purpose to harass another," "in any other course

of alarming conduct or of repeatedly committed acts with purpose

to alarm or seriously annoy such other person."

3The judge's citation to the predicate acts in question here

combined both subsections (a) and (c); that is, the judge

stated:

In looking under the complaint that's been

filed, it's [N.J.S.A.] 2C:33-4, harassment,

a person commits a petty disorderly offense

if with the purpose of harassment, he makes

or causes to be made communications in an

offensive language or in any matter likely

to cause annoyance or alarm.

The judge did not thereafter determine which part or parts of

the statute were violated here.

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"[c]ommon sense and experience." State v. Hoffman, 149 N.J.

564, 577 (1997). Here, the judge made no finding that defendant

acted with this requisite purpose, nor may defendant's words and

conduct be viewed as implicitly embodying a purpose to harass.

Accordingly, in the absence of this "integral" finding,

Corrente, supra, 281 N.J. Super. at 249, the judge's

determination that defendant committed a predicate act cannot

stand and the FRO must be reversed.

B

Even when viewed expansively, we cannot conclude from the

judge's findings that defendant engaged in any communications or

conduct that rose to the level of what the Legislature intended

as "domestic violence." For example, in Corrente, the defendant

threatened "drastic measure[s]," and later disconnected the

plaintiff's telephone service; we held that communication and

conduct could not be "characterized as alarming or seriously

annoying." Id. at 249. In another case, we drew the same

conclusion where the defendant said to the plaintiff, "I'll bury

you," Peranio v. Peranio, 280 N.J. Super. 47, 55-56 (App. Div.

1995). And, where the defendant surreptitiously removed the

plaintiff's belongings from their apartment and engaged in one

occasion of shouting and door slamming, we likewise found no

course of alarming conduct sufficient to constitute domestic

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violence. Grant v. Wright, 222 N.J. Super. 191, 196 (App.

Div.), certif. denied, 111 N.J. 562 (1988). See also Kamen v.

Egan, 322 N.J. Super. 222, 228 (App. Div. 1999) (holding that a

single act of trespass, unaccompanied by violence or a threat of

violence, was insufficient to justify issuance of an FRO).

Assessing the judge's opinion in the light most favorable

to plaintiff, the evidence suggested only that defendant made

multiple telephone calls to plaintiff about the payment of fees

for the children's extracurricular activities, berated plaintiff

and called her a "bitch," and made angry gestures and faces from

a distance. Even had the judge found defendant spoke and acted

with the purpose to harass -- which he did not -- these

circumstances still failed to meet the standard necessary for

entry of an FRO.

As then Judge (now Justice) Long stated for this court in

Corrente, this type of conduct -- particularly during the course

of matrimonial litigation, as here -- "was plainly never

contemplated by the Legislature when it addressed the serious

social problem of domestic violence." 281 N.J. Super. at 250.

Instead, "the invocation of the domestic violence law" in this

case, like Corrente, "trivialize[s] the plight of true victims

of domestic violence and misuse[s] the legislative vehicle which

was developed to protect them." Ibid.; see also Peranio, supra,

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280 N.J. Super. at 56-57. In short, "[t]he domestic violence

law was intended to address matters of consequence, not ordinary

domestic contretemps such as this." Corrente, supra, 281 N.J.

Super. at 250. We find those statements equally applicable

here.4

C

The FRO must also be reversed because the judge did not

find restraints were necessary "to protect the victim from an

immediate danger or to prevent further abuse." Silver, supra,

387 N.J. Super. at 127; see also Kamen, supra, 322 N.J. Super.

at 228. As explained by Judge Fall in Silver, supra, 387 N.J.

Super. at 126-27, the finding of a predicate act satisfies only

the first step in a two-step process. Because "the Legislature

4The record is very murky as to whether there was a prior history

of domestic violence. Plaintiff asserted "[t]here's a long

prior history . . . going back to 1997 of threats and

harassment, interfering with my work" but she only provided

specifics related to her unsuccessful attempt to obtain an FRO

five years earlier. We are mindful that defendant acknowledged

"there's been a long history of reported domestic violence [that

started] back in 1997," but his unspecific comments seemed to

suggest that plaintiff's earlier claims, which were found

without merit, were not dissimilar from those asserted here.

Moreover, defendant testified and was not contradicted that

after the earlier domestic violence action was dismissed, the

parties continued to reside together, even after entry of a

judgment of divorce. In any event, the judge made only one

reference to this testimony -- "I've heard a litany of

complaints that go back to 1997" -- and did not find that there

was a prior history of domestic violence.

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did not intend that the commission of one of the enumerated

predicate acts of domestic violence automatically mandates the

entry of a domestic violence retraining order," plaintiff was

obligated to prove and the judge was required to find that

restraints were necessary to "protect the victim from an

immediate danger or to prevent further abuse." Ibid. Although

there are certain acts of domestic violence that may reveal such

a need without a judge's express finding, when the claimed

predicate act consists of harassment or other types of

nonviolent conduct, the judge is required to provide a

principled analysis of why a restraining order is necessary to

protect the victim from danger or further abuse.

Absent an expressed holding, or other findings from which

we might discern such an implicit determination, we must

conclude that plaintiff failed to prove the need for an FRO even

if the proofs permitted a finding that defendant committed the

predicate act of harassment.

Reversed.

Wednesday, September 15, 2010

Relief Available for People With Children

Relief Available for People With Children

If you have children, you will probably need to ask for additional relief in your divorce complaint concerning custody of the children, parenting time/visitation, and child support.

Top of page

Custody. If you and your spouse do not agree about child custody, the judge will have to decide this in the divorce case. The judge must decide what custody arrangement is in the child’s best interests. If you have serious concerns about who will get custody, you should talk to a lawyer.

There are two aspects of custody: legal custody and physical custody. The parent with primary legal custody is responsible for making important decisions concerning the child, such as where the child should go to school and what kind of medical care the child should get. The parent with primary physical custody is the parent the child lives with most of the time. This parent is called the custodial parent, and the other parent is called the non-custodial parent. Parents can also share custody jointly.

  • Joint physical custody (also called shared physical custody). The child lives with each parent for similar amounts of time during the year. In this situation, both parents have day-to-day responsibility for the child.
  • Primary physical custody. The child lives most of the time with one parent. The other parent may visit the child.
  • Joint legal custody. Both parents are involved in making important decisions concerning the child’s education, medical care, and similar issues. Both have access to the child’s school and medical records.
  • Primary legal custody. Only one parent is responsible for making important decisions concerning the child.

Custody arrangements can vary greatly, depending upon the needs of the children and the relationship of the parents. The court does not have to give both parents physical and legal custody. Often the parties have joint legal custody, but one party has primary physical custody. In some very rare situations, one parent will get legal and physical custody. This parent is said to have sole custody. Sole custody is ordered only where one parent is missing, absent, or found to be legally “unfit.”

Custody decisions are based on the child’s best interests. The court will look at a number of factors, including:

  • The parents’ ability to agree, communicate, and cooperate.
  • The child’s relationship with the parents and siblings.
  • Any history of domestic violence.
  • The child’s safety, needs, and preference.
  • Each parent’s ability to take care of the child.
  • The child’s education.
  • The amount of time each parent has spent with the child.
  • The parents’ employment responsibilities.
  • The ages and number of children.
  • Any other factors the court finds relevant.

Decisions involving custody can be changed by the court if the parties’ or children’s circumstances change.

Other issues around custody include the following:

  • Parent education. In every divorce action where custody, visitation, or support of a minor child or children is an issue, the court will order the parents to attend a Parents’ Education Program to be offered twice a month through the court. There is a $25 fee to attend this program, and attendance is mandatory. The program is designed to assist and advise divorcing parents on issues concerning divorce, separation, and custody, to promote cooperation between them and assist them in resolving issues concerning their children that may arise during the divorce or separation process. The court may exempt a party from attending this program if a temporary or final restraining order, restraining either party from contact with the other, has been issued or for other good cause determined by the court.
  • Custody mediation. When there is a dispute about custody or parenting time, the court will usually refer the parties to mediation to see if a court mediator can help resolve the issue. If a temporary or final domestic violence restraining order has been entered against you or your spouse, you cannot be required to participate in mediation. Likewise, if there are issues of child abuse or sexual abuse, the case will not be mediated. If circumstances require it, even after mediation has begun, the mediator or either party can petition the court for permission to remove the case from mediation by demonstrating good cause for removal. If an agreement is reached, it is memorialized in writing and a copy is given to each party. If an agreement is not reached, the case goes back to the court to be settled by way of a trial or hearing.
  • Court investigations. The court can ask the probation division or other court staff to conduct an investigation of the parties and their homes and file a report with the court. This is sometimes referred to as a best interests investigation.
  • Parenting plans. Unless you and your spouse agree about custody, you will both have to file aCustody and Parenting Time/Visitation Plan (Form 22) with the court within 75 days of the date the defendant answers the complaint. If the defendant files a counterclaim, you will need to file your plan within 75 days of filing your answer to the counter-claim. (See Custody and Parenting Time/Visitation Plan.) source http://www.lsnjlaw.org/english/family/divorce/divorcenj/divch1/index.cfm#ch1prep

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

DYFS v. I.H.C. and D.C. A-2208-09T4

DYFS v. I.H.C. and D.C.

A-2208-09T4 08-05-10

In this abuse or neglect case, we hold that N.J.R.E. 404(b)

did not bar consideration of the father's acts of domestic

violence against his ex-wife and the children of that marriage

about seven years earlier to prove risk of harm to the children

of this marriage. We also hold that domestic violence that

presents risk to children in an abuse or neglect case can be

broader than the meaning of that term under the Prevention of

Domestic Violence Act. As testified by the experts, the

father's coercive control of the mother, together with both

parents' denial of and failure to treat their psychological

conditions, posed a risk of harm to the children. In reaching

these holdings, we address and distinguish DYFS v. H.B., 375

N.J. Super. 148 (App. Div. 2005), and DYFS v. S.S., 372 N.J.

Super. 13 (App. Div. 2004), certif. denied, 182 N.J. 426 (2005).


DEPARTMENT OF CHILDREN AND FAMILIES, DIVISION OF YOUTH AND FAMILY SERVICES v. C.H. A-4786-08T1

DEPARTMENT OF CHILDREN AND FAMILIES, DIVISION OF YOUTH

AND FAMILY SERVICES v. C.H.

A-4786-08T1 07-28-10

An ALJ found that a parent's corporal punishment of a four-

year-old who reported to a neighbor that there was no

electricity in their home was insufficient to sustain an

allegation of abuse under N.J.S.A. 9:6-8.21(c). The Director

disagreed, finding that given the reason for inflicting the

corporal punishment, the fact that the child was struck multiple

times, and the parent's history of questionable corporal

punishment, the abuse had been substantiated. We affirmed and

agreed the Director properly considered the parent's past

admitted history of corporal punishment inflicted upon the

S.D. v. M.J.R. A-6107-08T2

S.D. v. M.J.R.

A-6107-08T2 07-23-10

In this action pursuant to the Prevention of Domestic

Violence Act (PDVA), we held that the Free Exercise Clause of

the First Amendment does not require a Family Part judge to

exempt defendant, a practicing Muslim, from a finding that he

committed the predicate acts of sexual assault and criminal

sexual contact and thus violated the PDVA. We also found that

the judge was mistaken in failing to enter a final restraining

order in the matter.

Tuesday, September 7, 2010

DIVORCE – DISPUTE RESOLUTION ALTERNATIVES TO CONVENTIONAL LITIGATION – DESCRIPTIVE MATERIAL REQUIRED BY RULE 5:4-2(h); CERTIFICATION FORMS

DIVORCE – DISPUTE RESOLUTION ALTERNATIVES TO CONVENTIONAL LITIGATION

– DESCRIPTIVE MATERIAL REQUIRED BY RULE 5:4-2(h); CERTIFICATION FORMS

As part of the July 27 rule amendments that went into effect September 1, the

Supreme Court adopted a new paragraph in Rule 5:4-2 (“Complaint”) that requires the

first pleading of each party in a divorce action to include an affidavit or certification “that

the litigant has been informed of the availability of complementary dispute resolution

(‘CDR’) alternatives to conventional litigation, including but not limited to mediation or

arbitration, and that the litigant has received descriptive literature regarding such CDR

alternatives.” Rule 5:4-2(h) (“Affidavit or Certification of Notification of Complementary

Dispute Resolution Alternatives”). The Court recently adopted a clarifying amendment

to that paragraph, changing “descriptive literature” to “descriptive material.”

In a September 18 Notice to the Bar, I advised that the “descriptive material” was

still in the process of being developed by the Committee on Complementary Dispute

Resolution. The Committee completed its work and submitted the proposed text and

the accompanying certification forms. The Court at its October 10 Administrative

Conference approved the “descriptive material” text and the certification forms, subject

to some final editing.

That final editing having been made, attached as approved by the Supreme

Court is the “descriptive material” on dispute resolution alternatives to conventional

divorce litigation, as referenced in Rule 5:4-2(h). Also attached are the two approved

certification forms relating to the descriptive literature, one for use by self-represented

matrimonial litigants, the other by those litigants represented by counsel. The

descriptive material and certification forms should be used effective immediately.

The descriptive material and certification forms also will be published and posted

by a Notice to the Bar. Questions may be directed to Assistant Director Harry Cassidy

at 609-984-4228.

Note: The adoption of Rule 5:4-2(h) and the promulgation of the attached

descriptive material is in no way intended to indicate any change in the Court’s policy,

grounded in statutes and court rules, against mediation in any matter in which a

temporary or final restraining order has been entered pursuant to the Prevention of

Domestic Violence Act.

/s/ Philip S. Carchman

Philip S. Carchman, J.A.D.

Acting Administrative Director of the Courts

Dated: December 4, 2006

DIVORCE – DISPUTE RESOLUTION ALTERNATIVES

TO CONVENTIONAL LITIGATION*

[Text Promulgated 12/04/06 as Approved by the Supreme Court]

Resolving issues concerning your divorce can be costly and difficult. While only a judge

can actually grant a divorce, division of your property and your debts, alimony, child support,

custody and parenting time are some of the other issues that may need to be resolved. A judge

can decide all issues at trial. However, there are other ways to resolve many of the issues in your

divorce. These alternate dispute resolution methods offer greater privacy than resolving the

issues in a public trial. They also may be faster and less expensive, and may reduce the level of

conflict between you and your spouse during your divorce. You are encouraged to discuss

alternative dispute resolution with your lawyer to decide whether these alternate methods may

help you and your spouse resolve as many of the issues relating to your divorce as possible

before the matter is presented to the judge.

What follows are short descriptions of various forms of alternative dispute resolution that

may be used in divorce cases.

MEDIATION**

Mediation is a means of resolving differences with the help of a trained, impartial third

party. The parties, with or without lawyers, are brought together by the mediator in a neutral

*

This constitutes the “descriptive material” referenced in Rule 5:4-2(h) that each divorce litigant

must receive and certify as having received (using the attached certification forms).

**

Note: The adoption of Rule 5:4-2(h) and the promulgation of this descriptive material is in no

way intended to indicate any change in the Court’s policy, grounded in statutes and court rules,

against mediation in any matter in which a temporary or final restraining order has been entered

pursuant to the Prevention of Domestic Violence Act.

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setting. A mediator does not represent either side and does not offer legal advice. Parties are

encouraged to retain an attorney to advise them of their rights during the mediation process. The

mediator helps the parties identify the issues, gather the information they need to make informed

decisions, and communicate so that they can find a solution agreeable to both. Mediation is

designed to facilitate settlements in an informal, non-adversarial manner. The court maintains a

roster of approved mediators or you can use private mediation services. The judge would still

make the final determination as to whether to grant the divorce.

ARBITRATION

In an arbitration proceeding, an impartial third party decides issues in a case. The parties

select the arbitrator and agree on which issues the arbitrator will decide. The parties also agree in

advance whether the arbitrator’s decisions will be binding on them or instead treated merely as a

recommendation. While an arbitrator may decide issues within a divorce case, the judge would

still make the final determination as to whether to grant the divorce.

USE OF PROFESSIONALS

Parties in a divorce may also seek the assistance of other skilled professionals to help

resolve issues in a case, such as attorneys, accountants or other financial professionals, and

various types of mental health professionals (e.g., psychiatrists, psychologists, social workers,

therapists). These professionals may help the parties resolve all of the issues or just specific

portions of the case. As with mediation and arbitration, parties making use of these

professionals to resolve issues in the divorce are encouraged to consult their attorney for advice

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throughout this process. While this approach may resolve some issues in the case, the judge

would still need to make the final decision to grant the divorce.

COMBINATIONS OF ALTERNATIVES

Depending on your circumstances, it may be helpful for you to use a combination of

mediation, arbitration, and skilled professionals to resolve issues in your divorce.

CONCLUSION

Just as every marriage is unique, every divorce is unique as well. The specific

circumstances of your divorce determine what method or methods of dispute resolution are best

suited to resolve issues in your divorce. You are encouraged to ask your attorney about these

alternative dispute resolution methods to resolve issues relating to your divorce.

Using these alternative dispute resolution methods allows you to participate in the

decision on those issues, rather than leaving all of the issues to the judge to decide. And

presenting the judge with a case in which the only decision remaining is whether to grant the

divorce will permit that decision to be made more expeditiously. While the judge must be the

one to decide whether to grant the divorce, your role in deciding some or all of the other issues

can be enhanced through these alternative dispute resolution methods.

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[Rule 5:4-2(h) Certification Forms Promulgated 12/04/06 as Approved by the Supreme Court]

SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY

CHANCERY DIVISION, FAMILY PART

Plaintiff

COUNTY

DOCKET NO. FM-

vs.

Defendant

CIVIL ACTION

RULE 5:4-2(h) CERTIFICATION BY

SELF-REPRESENTED LITIGANT

__________________________, of full age, hereby certifies as follows:

1. I am the Plaintiff Defendant in the above captioned matter.

2. I make this Certification pursuant to New Jersey Court Rule 5:4-2(h).

3. I have read the document entitled “Divorce -- Dispute Resolution Alternatives to

Conventional Litigation”.

4. I thus have been informed as to the availability of complementary dispute

resolution alternatives to conventional litigation.

I certify that the foregoing statements made by me are true. I am aware that if any of the

foregoing statements made by me are willfully false, I am subject to punishment.

Dated:

Published 12/04/2006, CN 10889-English page 1 of 1

[Rule 5:4-2(h) Certification Forms Promulgated 12/04/06 as Approved by the Supreme Court]

SUPERIOR COURT OF NEW JERSEY

CHANCERY DIVISION, FAMILY PART

Plaintiff

COUNTY

DOCKET NO. FM-

vs.

Defendant

CIVIL ACTION

RULE 5:4-2(h) CERTIFICATION BY

ATTORNEY AND CLIENT

_____________________________, being of full age, hereby certifies as follows:

1. I am the attorney for the Plaintiff Defendant in the above captioned

matter.

2. I make this Certification pursuant to New Jersey Court Rule 5:4-2(h).

3. I have provided my client with a copy of the document entitled “Divorce --

Dispute Resolution Alternatives to Conventional Litigation”.

4. I have discussed with my client the complementary dispute resolution alternatives

to litigation contained in that document.

I certify that the foregoing statements made by me are true. I am aware that if any of the

foregoing statements made by me are willfully false, I am subject to punishment.

Dated:

**************************************************************************

_____________________________, being of full age, hereby certifies as follows:

1. I am the Plaintiff Defendant in the above captioned matter and am

represented in this divorce matter by _____________________________.

Published 12/04/2006, CN 10890-English page 1 of 2

2. I make this Certification pursuant to New Jersey Court Rule 5:4-2(h).

3. I have read the document entitled “Divorce – Dispute Resolution Alternatives to

Conventional Litigation.”

4. I thus have been informed as to the availability of complementary dispute

resolution alternatives to litigation.

I certify that the foregoing statements made by me are true. I am aware that if any of the

foregoing statements made by me are willfully false, I am subject to punishment.

Dated: